"I know I want real, mutual love. So why am I still accepting less? Something has got to change."

The Threshold is a private 90-minute breakthrough session for when you’re stuck in a painful relationship loop...and you know it.

You don’t need another self-help podcast.

You don’t need another attachment theory breakdown.

You need a deeper kind of clarity that you haven't explored yet - one that will transform these painful patterns at the root, for lasting change.

Because right now, at 11:30pm, you’re still spiraling about:

• Whether you should finally tell this person the truth that you've been avoiding (by rehearsing it in your head for weeks, months or years by now) - and risk losing them

• Why you’re with someone who doesn’t really get you - and definitely doesn’t see you the way you crave to be seen

• Why you’re lying next to them in bed…and still feel completely alone

• Why the sex feels flat…or forced…or even worse, non-existent

• Why you keep drafting the breakup text...and then deleting it, over and over again

• Why you keep settling for “it’s fine” when it’s not fine...it's mediocre or the bare minimum & it's actually humiliating to admit what you've been tolerating

Or you’re single and asking:

• Why do I keep attracting the same painful type of partner who ends up rejecting me - emotionally unavailable or avoidant or they're showing interest, even though they're already in another relationship?

• Why does it start intense & get distant so quickly?

• Why are they so hot & cold? 

• Why does it feel so hard to be fully chosen & committed to - like I'm always on the sidelines, watching love happen for everyone else except me?

• How am I this self-aware & intelligent, I've done years of personal development...yet I'm still repeating this shit?

You’re not confused.

You’re stuck at a threshold.

And enough is enough.

It's time for a breakthrough & a way out of this exhausting pattern - for good. 

Here's What Happens in Your Session

This is not couples therapy or venting about how they hurt you.

This is not “let’s talk about your childhood for three hours".

This is a focused 90-minute breakthrough session (including an intake form in advance, to maximize our time), where you'll receive Sacred Intimacy guidance rooted in Tibetan Buddhist practice.

We'll rapidly identify:

• The exact relational pattern you keep reenacting, even when you swear you won't do it again

• The attachment perpetuating it, which I'll help you transform using Buddhist methodology - ie: fear of rejection, maintaining control, image-protection, avoiding abandonment

• The part of you that's keeping this painful cycle alive & why - even subtly

• The one immediate shift that will change the trajectory of your intimate life for the better

You'll leave with:

• A concise understanding of what's yours to address within the relationship dynamic - and how to begin shifting it ASAP using Tibetan Buddhist wisdom

• A specific Buddhist meditation practice to fully interrupt the loop & start transforming it at the root, tailored to your unique needs

• A clear decision point - so you leave knowing exactly what action you're taking next. No more confusion. No more excuses.

Why a Buddhist Approach to Intimacy Works

Insight alone doesn’t change behavior.

After years of self-help & spiritual growth, you've probably figured that out by now.

You can know your attachment style or that you have a tendency to avoid direct confrontation...and still freeze when it's time to cross a challenging intimacy threshold.

In relationships - just like every other area of your life - what you consistently think, tolerate & repeat is what grows.

In Tibetan Buddhism, your mind is the garden.

And according to the school of Buddhism we'll be applying (Gelugpa - Mahayana path, lineage of HHDL), 100% of your reality is a projection coming from your own mind & karma. This is the ultimate empowerment, because if it's all coming from you...it can change.

If you keep planting seeds of avoidance, silence, resentment or half-truths…that’s what matures.

If you plant courage, honesty, clear boundaries & vulnerability…that grows instead.

Like produces like - in mind, body & speech.

This 90-minute session shows you what you’ve been reinforcing (even subconsciously) - and how to finally shift it.