Wake the Fuck Up, Honey...
I know.
15 years ago, I got the exact same message.
I was sitting in a corporate office in New York City (feeling unfulfilled + withering a little more each day from job dissatisfaction) when I found out that Larry, my beloved mentor from college, died.
He came to me in a dream soon after he passed basically telling me "it was time" (to have a spiritual awakening, apparently...and turn my whole life upside-down, lol).
At that point, I wasn't only unhappy at work. I was also clinging to the wrong relationship + trying to convince myself I could ignore the feeling that something wasn't right.
Spoiler alert:
I couldn't.
And you can't, either.
You've already gotten the memo.
You've just been trying to negotiate with it.
The dead-end relationship.
The soul-sucking job.
The dream you keep telling yourself isn't realistic.
The audacious move you're terrified to make.
The creative project you keep postponing.
The version of yourself you've quietly outgrown, but still haven't fully let die.
You keep hoping the tension will go away.
It won't.
Because the new life that's calling you into uncharted territory isn't showing up by accident.
It's showing up because some part of you already knows.
That's the good news.
And the bad news.
So, you're probably wondering...
Now what?
WELL, SHIT...I'M LISTENING
I've Crossed Some Seriously Major (and Terrifying) Thresholds.
I've walked away from a 6-figure corporate career in NYC in my late 20s (with no other job lined up).
Left a 7-year marriage that looked perfectly nice on paper.
Moved to Miami unemployed after leaving New York to pursue a spiritual wellness career...with no backup plan.
Started over. Multiple times.
Moved back in with my parents at 35 years old - after getting fired from 9 to 5 jobs in Miami THREE times in a row - to build the online business that nobody else could see yet (and ending up staying with them for almost 6 years...which definitely wasn't my original plan).
Chose abstinence for nearly a DECADE + stopped abandoning myself chasing unavailable men.
Went from feeling lost + doing tequila shots in South Beach...to getting sober + becoming a Buddhist (I'm still a bad girl 😝 - just a baddie with better ethics, lol)
Followed creative instincts + made investments on a gut feeling that made absolutely no sense to anyone around me.
Some of those decisions worked out beautifully.
Some blew up in my face.
And I'd still choose ALL OF THAT over spending my life wondering..."what if?"
Every single choice (and flop) built deep self-trust + unshakable faith in my vision.
That's why I know what it feels like to stand at a HUGE crossroads...and jump.
And it's also why I'm exceptionally good at helping people stop talking themselves out of a big leap of faith or the life of their wildest dreams.
OKAY...WHAT'S NEXT?
What Kind of Life Do You Really Want?
Maybe you want to leave the relationship.
Not because it's terrible.
Not because you don't care about them.
Because deep down, you know you've outgrown it.
And blowing up the life you've spent years investing in - especially without a "logical" reason to go - feels way riskier than staying.
Maybe you want to abandon the career you've built that looks great on paper.
People respect you. Some of them are even jealous of what you've created.
But every morning you fantasize about walking away from all of it...and how fucking liberating it would be to stop living a life that feels empty + unfulfilling, no matter how much it pays or how good it looks from the outside.
Maybe you know *exactly* what you want. It just makes zero sense to the people around you.
And claiming it would disappoint your family, confuse your friends, piss off your inner circle...or make you the villain in someone else's story.
So the fear of judgment is what's keeping you stuck in analysis paralysis.
Maybe there's a creative dream that won't leave you alone.
The book.
The business.
The reinvention or "unrealistic" pivot you've been yapping about for 3 years already.
And you're running out of excuses not to start.
Maybe you're petrified that if you don't make a change soon, you'll wake up five years from now - in serious regret - living the EXACT same life.
Realizing you knew exactly what needed to happen all along.
And you did nothing, anyway.
Maybe your life isn't "that bad"...and that's the problem.
It's comfortable. Predictable. Safe.
But not turned-on or honest enough to keep choosing every day without losing your mind.
And at this point you're restless as hell.
Lying to yourself isn't working anymore.
Because here's the truth:
You know you're meant for more...
but you've been settling.
You're sick of pretending that "good enough" IS enough.
And the only thing standing between you and the life you actually want...
is YOU.
FUCK...I FEEL SEEN (AND CALLED OUT)Major Breakthroughs + Big-Ass Shifts
(aka: proof this shit works when you show up)
Here are some BIG WINS from clients who stopped playing it safe...
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"Pitched + won the $35K 8-week project today. That's 3x the amount of money expected for this deal. Thank you for all the clarity..."
-T.L.
The Answers Aren't On Your Damn Laptop...
Most people try to THINK + STRATEGIZE their way through challenging transition periods.
When your mind gets so fucking busy, it's too noisy up there to get any real clarity.
I've found the best answers tend to arrive in quieter moments...especially off of technology.
On long walks.
Through creative exploration.
Staring off into space.
In nature.
Poolside in my bikini.
When I let myself just sit in the discomfort of feeling antsy or doubtful....without immediately trying to "fix" it.
Not just when I'm being "productive".
Because here's what I've learned after a decade of making BIG decisions that looked completely irrational on paper, but often worked out like magic:
You don't figure things out by overanalyzing everything, creating a 47-step plan, waiting for everyone else to give you a thumbs up or by endlessly distracting yourself.
You get quiet enough to hear yourself again.
You get used to sitting in the void...without running from the uncomfortable feelings that inevitably come up when you stop running.
Then you build confidence by taking messy action + following through (not by "thinking" about it).
That's also how you learn to trust the subtler signals (and your own inner compass) more than anything outside of you.
Being a permission slip to break all the rules is a HUGE part of how I support people through major life thresholds.
Not by telling you exactly what to do.
By guiding you back to yourself.
Offering a no-judgment zone to cut through your excuses.
And by helping you create the space to listen to your truth...then MOVE on it without second-guessing.
UM, YES PLEASE
PRIVATE 1:1 MENTORSHIP
If you're looking for someone to hand you some perfect step-by-step blueprint to your wildest dreams, I'm NOT your girl.
But if you're standing at a major crossroads that you've been avoiding or overthinking for too long...
A relationship change.
A career shift.
A creative pivot.
A whole new chapter.
....and you're finally ready to take the damn leap...
I'm really, really good at helping people make bold moves.
We'll get radically honest about what you actually want.
Untangle what's no longer working.
And build the courage (and audacity) to follow through.
Plus, we'll make it fun.
Because life-changing decisions are hard enough.
I don't believe growth has to feel like punishment.
🔥 Expect laughter + dark humor.
🔥 Expect creative + playful solutions to typically difficult or heavy situations.
🔥 Expect uncomfortable truthbombs delivered with love.
🔥 Expect plot twists.
🔥 And expect things to shift surprisingly fast once you stop negotiating with yourself.
Mentorship Includes:
- (2) 90-minute Zoom sessions per month
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Private Telegram support (text + audio) between calls during office hours (Mon–Fri, 8am–6pm EST)
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Bespoke, tailored guidance based on your unique situation
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Access to a curated archive of resources, [Tibetan Buddhist] meditations + practices from 15+ years of personal + professional work
Need a little foreplay before a 3-month commitment? 🔥😜
I occasionally offer a limited number of 90-minute Intensives for people standing at a specific threshold who need clarity, momentum or a strategic kick in the ass to get the ball rolling.
Perfect for creative pivots, relationship crossroads, career decisions or those moments when you know something needs to change, but can't quite see the next move.
Available by request only - $555 USD
(Check the box in the mentorship application below if you're interested.)
Investment: $2500 USD/month
Minimum 3-month commitment.
For the ones who know they're ready to go deep, a 6-month option is also available.
FUCK YES, I'M IN.
