You ever hit a point where you realize… I actually have no fucking clue what’s next?

Because, same. 😂

Sometimes, no matter how hard you try to plan ahead, vision board it, pray about it, make an Excel spreadsheet about it...you just can't force the answer to come earlier than it's meant to. 

There's our ego's order. And there's Divine Order. 

For me, I feel like I'm currently in-between worlds. It's not like things have totally died, but I also know I haven't fully landed in the new thing, either (whatever that is). 

So, what do you do?

In my experience...YOU MAKE SPACE. And you PLAY. Take a little break. Walk away for a bit. Show up, but don't overdo it. 

You relax your grip (and unclench your asshole, lol). 

You take a DEEP breath & remind yourself… no one actually has it all figured out. No matter how sexy & polished their social media looks or how perfectly they sell the promise of a flawless 5-year plan.

You guys...IT'S AN ILLUSION. Give yourself a break. 

Like the saying goes..."Make plans, the Universe laughs." 

Even John Lennon said, "Life's what happens while you're busy making other plans."

In other words, chill the fuck out. 

If you haven't landed in total clarity, don't try to force it either. 

A BIG vision is a beautiful thing. Some strategy is great (and necessary). But this grand illusion of total control is making people insane...and for good reason. It's bullshit!

So in true Sagittarius fashion, since the start of 2025 (my word for the year, by the way, is JOY) I’ve been making space for THAT—🌻more play, more art, more fun💃🏼. Painting again. Baking sourdough. Hanging with my nieces. Thinking about buying a DJ mixer just because I love music so much. Letting things be lighter for once.

And honestly? Some days it's STILL (no matter how many years I practice this & no matter how much I meditate) uncomfortable as hell. Why? Because high-achievers love a goddamn plan 😂😭, (don't we)?! 

Instead of forcing it, I’m rolling with it.

And in true "I don’t have it all figured out, but I’m showing up anyway" energy (this is why my clients call me The Pivot Queen👑💅🏼)...

💋STRIPPED, the podcast, is back. She's got a new look & a new vibe. 

Episode 1: "I Have No Idea Where This is Going (And That's Kinda the Point)" is live.

if you’re in a pivot, if life feels like a blurry question mark, if you’re over trying to force answers before they’re ready—this one’s for you.

Listen to the latest episode of STRIPPED now [click here to check it out on Spotify or Apple]